⭐️ THE ART OF LETTING GO: HOW TO STOP CHASING THOSE WHO DON’T CHASE YOU
Since I was young, my parents used to describe me with this phrase: “The amount of sweetness she has is equal to the toughness she carries.”
I give my all to the people I care about—I go out of my way for them. But the moment I realize that my effort isn’t reciprocated, everything changes. There is no slow withdrawal, no second chances, no waiting to see if things will improve. The cut is absolute.
My ex-husband learned this the hard way. The day I stopped seeing reciprocity, I didn’t care how long we had been together, that we had a daughter, or even if I could pay the bills on my own. I shut the door completely. My rational side took over, and I knew time would heal everything.
That’s why it saddens me when I see so many people insisting on relationships where the other person isn’t giving back. I know it’s not easy to let go, but we must be strong for our own sake.
If you’re the one always reaching out, if the person shows little interest in your life, if the relationship causes you more anxiety than happiness—then your relationship is one-sided.
🤨 But why do we keep fighting for people who clearly don’t feel the same way?
💔 Maybe it’s the fear of rejection.
💔 The hope that they’ll eventually change.
💔 The unwillingness to accept that someone doesn’t value us the way we deserve.
💔 Or maybe it’s just our ego refusing to lose. We hold onto memories of how things used to be, convinced that if we just try a little harder, we can bring back what’s already gone.
The truth is, when someone wants to be in your life, you don’t have to convince them. You don’t have to chase them or make endless excuses for why they don’t put in effort. People who care will show you they care. And those who don’t? Well, they’ve already given you their answer.
Letting go isn’t about giving up on love or choosing to be alone forever—it’s about making space for the right people. It’s about realizing that you don’t have to fight for affection or force a connection that should come naturally.
❤️ When you stop insisting on those who treat you like an option, you ATTRACT THOSE WHO SEE YOU AS A PRIORITY.
🍸 And here we are again—Saturday… and a well-deserved 💪🏾 ME TIME! 🤩
After all the action of the Resident Evil saga, I want to keep the excitement going, so I’m starting another saga: John Wick! And it will be a DELIGHT watching Keanu Reeves. OMG! I’ve had a BIG CRUSH on this man since I saw his first movie…I was in high school! Yeah… that long… 😁 To me, he’s the full package: handsome and a GOOD PERSON! Can’t ask for more… 😏
And to accompany this movie, I chose Martini Bianco. Love it, love it, LOVE IT! 😋👌🏾
Bye-bye! 💋
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